Feb 16, 2011

People deserves a second chance at life ....

Understanding and tenderness would arise among us no matter how bad things got, and we found redemption in the very places we hurt most.

You know, sometimes during the course of our lives, we commit some actions that are terrible... terrible to even discuss .... but don’t you think that person deserves a second chance at life? I know some people can’t forgive what the other person has done, but for that guilty person to seek redemption, you should be thankful and not put them down. I know you can’t forgive that prson, tetapi tolonglah jangan jatuhkan moral org itu. And who are we to play God and say that person DOES NOT deserve a second chance? Sedangkan dia betul2 nak berubah... so, why are we weighing him down? And what rights do we have to stop him? Pada sha, kalau betul lah dia nak berubah, biarlah... adalah tanggungjawab kita sebagai ahli keluarga/teman istimewa/kawan utk mnyokong ... and if he/she is lying hanya utk dapatkan perhatian, itu adalah urusan dia dengan Tuhan...

Sha sendiri telah diberi peluang dalam hidup ni bnyk kali... dan kalau dulu, setiap kali diberi, sha hanya akan rosakkan peluang tu lagi... sehingga satu saat orang sekeliling sham mg langsung x percayakan sha.. i do admit, it takes time to build that trust again.. but as long as u r patient and willing to take what other say about you, insya allah the trust will be there again... just like me. I gained my the trust back after several tries... and Alhamdullillah.... i am where i want to be right now...

Sha tpikir, kalaula kita x bg manusia peluang kedua... ap akn jd.? Mereka akn jd lg teruk... so, its not good for the community.. sama la cm pesakit HIV/AIDS ... kita jauhkn, sisihkan mereka.. sedangkan mereka perlukan perhatian kita... perhatian dan sokongan yang mampu membuat mereka tabah dalam mngharungi liku-liku kehidupan.. hidup mereka sudah penuh dengan penderitaan, kenapa perlu kita tambah kesakitan itu? Bukan kita sepatutnya meringankan ke?

Kadang kala kita gelarkan diri kita insan cemerlang, tetapi kita lupa tntng diri kita yang dulu pun wt kesalahan dan kesilapan... dan mungkin secara x sedar, kita telah pun dberi peluang utk berubah... dan kita mmpu berubah..? jadi kenapa x berikan kepada mereka dan doa yg terbaik utk mereka? Doa yang semoga Allah benar2 buka hati mereka utk mngubah diri kearah kebaikan...?

*Kepada mereka yang pasang niat utk mengubah diri, sha doakan semoga kalian mmpu melawan godaan dan dapat kembali ke pangkal jalan... insya allah....

It is his capacity for self-improvement and self-redemption which most distinguishes man from the mere brute.

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